Meet someone who actually gets it.
A curated dating experience for people who value intention over endless swiping. Meaningful connections start here.
10,000+ members accepted
Maya, 27
Coffee, hikes & good conversation
Compatibility
94%
Designed for depth.
We stripped away the gamification of modern dating apps to build a space where genuine relationships can form.
Curated connections
We focus on quality over quantity. Every match is presented with intention, based on deep compatibility rather than surface-level traits.
Meaningful dialogue
Skip the small talk. Our thoughtful prompts and icebreakers are designed to spark conversations that actually matter.
Verified community
A safe, authentic environment. Every member goes through a verification process to ensure you're talking to real people.
Beyond the screen.
The goal isn't to keep you on the app. It's to get you off it. We facilitate real-world meetups, from intimate coffee dates to curated community events.
- ✓Exclusive local events
- ✓Concierge date planning
- ✓Community-vetted venues
A more intentional approach.
Apply
Tell us about yourself. Our team reviews every application to maintain a high-quality community.
Discover
Receive a limited number of highly compatible matches each week. No endless scrolling.
Connect
Start a conversation that matters, and let us help you plan the perfect first date.
Stories from our members.
"I was tired of swiping with no purpose. On Baneba I matched with someone who actually wanted the same things — we've been together six months now."
Sarah & Tom
Matched in Brooklyn
"The prompts made starting a conversation so easy. Our first date was at a coffee shop around the corner from both of us."
Priya
Matched in Austin
"It feels calm and intentional. No pressure, no games — just real people looking for something genuine."
Marcus
Matched in Chicago
Your next chapter begins here.
Join a community of individuals who are serious about finding a genuine connection.